30 Intimate Games for Couples to Play

One of the primary reasons why relationships lose their spark over time is reduced and monotonous physical intimacy routines. These amusing, intimate ideas for couples can actually rekindle the lost passion in a relationship.

These sexy couple's games give a chance to interact more freely and explore their fantasies. This makes sex lives much more thrilling and improves their levels of intimacy

Spice up your life with these sexy, fun games for couples. They range from thoughtful, sweet, intimate, romantic games, to red hot fantasy games for couples to create a naughty and flirty tone to enhance your date time together. They can a great prelude to a series of nights with passion.

A fun approach is often the best. Constant engagement and entertainment have a unique way of making things click in our brains. That is just how we, as humans, work. Some won't be for you, and that's fine! Those dealing with intimacy issues in their marriage might want to go in the more free-spirited direction.


1. Secret Admirer

There are many marriage intimacy games out there, but this is an excellent way to get started. Admiration is an essential part of a relationship.

For this game, you take turns to be each other’s, secret admirers. The admirer leaves gifts and clues while the recipient plays along “discovering” the admirer, and this ultimately lead-ups to a great date.

You can have anonymous gifts delivered to the house, place love notes in the car, pant-pockets, and leave clues leading them to a date location.

This is one of the best adult sex games to play with your boyfriend or girlfriend because it starts cute and playful but has the potential to end in something hot and steamy if you know how to play. The more romantic and thoughtful you are, the better the game.

It is an entertaining way to hone your romance skills. Although spouses know who the admirer is, the sweet gestures promote closeness and romance (the thought does count) while the unknown (the date) gives the game suspense.

Sometimes all couples need is something to look forward to.

2. The Kissing Game

We have all heard of or played the drinking game. The Kissing Game is a very similar and much hotter sex game for couples.

When cuddled up and watching a movie or TV show, pick a word, and whenever you hear that word, kiss. You probably won’t finish the film/show, but who needs television when you’re making out with your spouse? That is a win!

Kissing is a very intimate act that often leads to more physical intimacy. The problem is, couples with intimacy issues don’t kiss enough, or they stick with short pecks that do very little for their connection.

This is one of the best sexy games because it gives couples a reason to connect on a physical level.

3. Truth or Dare

Truth or dare can easily be shifted to the category of naughty games for couples.

For the truths, ask something meaningful or go with questions that will reveal your partner’s wild side. Examples would be something along the lines of, “When did you know I was the one?” or go with, “What is one of your deep, dark fantasies?”.

This presents the opportunity to open up and reminisce or tap into your partner’s sexuality. Both are steps towards a more intimate marriage.  

As for dares, ensure they are nothing less than naughty and dirty games. Anything from a striptease to something more daring and nasty is on the table.

Marriage intimacy games or romantic bedroom games must encourage closeness, and this one will get spouses close, both mentally and physically.

4. Blind Date

Blind dates have a reputation for being miserable, but this game will yield nothing but good times.

For this game, plan a date and meet up at the location playing your selected character. Become a completely different person than you know your spouse will be into and commit to the role.

Act like strangers, engage in dinner conversation, flirt, someone should invite the other for a nightcap and then allow that to turn into one unforgettable night of passion.

Roleplay can build intimacy in a marriage by exposing another side of your personality, which builds a greater connection between partners. Such games involving sexual role play demolishes barriers by encouraging individuals to open up.

5. The Fantasy Box

The fantasy box can be about a week’s worth of fun, and free sex games for couples rolled into one.

All you need to play couples’ sex games like the fantasy box are a few pieces of paper, a vessel to put those papers in, and an anything-goes kind of attitude.

Both players write down five fantasies on five pieces of paper, put the pieces of paper into a vessel (a small box, bowl, or hat will do), mix them around and take turns picking one. Fantasies may include taking sex out of the bedroom, trying a new position, or experimenting with dominant and submissive roles.

After making a selection, that is what you try. This will result in many mind-blowing nights together. Everyone has fantasies they would like to live out, but sharing those fantasies, especially the deep, dark ones, can be uncomfortable.

This game is a lighthearted way to share things you would like to try with your partner. Along with ensuring a good time, the game increases fulfillment since both are given the opportunity to live out their fantasies.

6. Bodypainting

Painting is fun, but body painting can be one of the best sex game ideas for couples ever. This activity can be turned into exciting and dirty games for couples. Here’s how!

For playing this game, only some washable organic paints and brushes are required. Couples use each others’ bodies as canvases and paint whatever they feel like. They can also shower together afterward.

Soft and smooth brush strokes stimulate erotic sensations and propel intimacy between partners. Apart from that, this intimate game also allows couples to express their feelings and emotions more creatively, which helps them get closer emotionally as well.

7. Romantic Scrabble

This couple’s sex game requires a scrabble board and scrabble letters. It is the same as regular Scrabble, and the only difference is that the players can only make romantic and sensual words. The one who loses the game has to do whatever the winner says.

Through this sexy game, couples tease each other and generate a mutual desire to get intimate. It gives them a break from regular intimacy rituals and makes their nights a little more exciting.

8. Couples Twister

Adding some twists to the popular twister game can turn it into a very rousing, kinky, sex game for married couples. 

This game requires a simple twister plastic mat and a spinner. One partner has to volunteer to spin. The twister game is played as usual, but it allows the couple to get physically closer.

At the end of the game, the loser has to fulfill whatever the winner wishes. The game gets couples in an intimate position but restricts them from doing anything else.

This way, partners get to tease and arouse each other. This makes their act of intimacy more pleasurable..

9. Reprising a Sensual or Sex Scene from a Movie

Watch and practice some of the habits of couples with the hottest sex lives - from movies. 

Pick a movie sex scene that you and your partner would like to recreate. Reprise the scene with your partner. Have a good laugh over it with your partner when you miserably fumble and try delivering the lines, albeit clumsily.

10. Ticking Bomb

Pick a time interval spanning between 15-20 minutes. Indulge in risque teasing, touching, fondling, caressing, and other forms of foreplay.

The only caveat – Do not allow penetration until you have crossed the threshold of the set time interval.

Just focus on the build-up, engaging foreplay that acts as a perfect prelude to a smoldering action between the sheets.

11. Hold me, Thrill me, Kiss me, Kill me (Not literally!)

Tie your partner’s wrists and ankles to the bedposts, or get an undernmattress restraint set, and get set for an incredibly erotic session. Bask in the glory of your newly acquired power what with your partner lying vulnerable, at your disposal.

Hold them, thrill them, kiss them, and pleasure them if you must till they scream for you to stop!

12. Rough It Up, Animals

It’s time to sever the ties with inhibitions and throw yourself into throes of passion. Wrestle your partner playfully, tie their hands together, and simulate a scene where your partner pretends to resist you.

The male counterpart’s mission is to penetrate and deliver his seed, and the partner's aim is to be the ultimate tease and not give in easily! What you will accomplish is a really passionate sex session.

13. A Close Shave

Although it can sound a bit brave and liable for disaster, shaving your partner’s pubic hairs can be done as a part of sexy games for couples.

If both the partners are comfortable and confident of not giving a nick to each other at such a tender place, go for it!

Make your partner lie down on a table or bed and first trim the hair for them. Later, clean the place nicely, foam up, and give a close shave, just as an expert!

You can then neaten up the place and take this game to another naughty level. You can apply some whipped cream or chocolate sauce or strawberry cream to the area and lick it up. You can, of course, choose the flavour!

14. All is Fair in Love and War

Yes, this war game is undoubtedly one of the sexy hot games. Try engaging in a tickle war.

The tickles can be done with the help of ice or whichever way you like it. Every time a partner surrenders, they have to let go of a piece of clothing.

This game can become very naughty, and you can choose to begin with a minimum layer of clothing if you can’t wait to get into some scintillating action!

15. Design a Treasure Map on your Body

In this game, all you need is your body and an edible flavour of your spouse’s choice.

All that you have to do is get naked and design a treasure map by squeezing some chocolate sauce or any other flavour that your spouse can’t resist.

You can start squeezing the sauce from where you would like your partner to start licking you, and you can end the trail on some unexplored erotic place that you would want your spouse to explore.

16. Sex Toys

If you both want to start using sex toys or are already using sex toys but cannot decide which one to use at what time, this game could be a saviour.

The rules of this hot sex game are simple. Just put all your favorite sex toys in a bag and blindfold your partner. Ask your partner to reach out for a toy in the bag. And hola! That’s the toy you got to use for your foreplay.

17. Number Jar

This romantic bedroom game needs two jars and twenty pieces of paper, ten for each of you. Both of you assign numbers to your different body parts and make a note of it. Write numbers from one to ten on each piece of the paper, fold, and put the paper pieces in the jar.

Once you both are done prepping up your jars, now is the time for this naughty couples’ game. Make your partner choose a paper piece from your jar and whatever be the number, and your partner needs to fondle that particular body part.

The purpose of this game is to encourage you on foreplay. And yes, the game doesn’t end till you finish with all the paper pieces and the rest, you know.

18. Dress Up the Dessert

Who is the desert? Of course you! For whom? Your partner!

As a part of this game, you have to dress yourself up with all edible goodies, preferably your partner’s choice, since they have to lick and eat that up.

It could be fruits like strawberries and cherries with some chocolate sauce and cream. Think of all possible toppings. And, when you are looking forward to your action night, dress yourself up like a beautiful dessert and invite your partner to indulge in the act of gluttony!

19.  Love Knows No Bounds

This game is about going wild. Get some cheap but revealing clothes for this purpose.

Guys, you just have to rip the clothes apart and get going.

20. Massage with a Happy Ending

Give your beau a happy ending massage. It’s comfortable, indulgent, and super sexy.  Just slather a bit of fragrant lotion or massage oil on him and make those sexy moves with you grinding on top of him (cherry on the cake!)

21. Paid by the Panty

Massagers are a great way to enhance your sexual fun. In this game, both of you can go for wearable massagers under your pants and exchange the remote. As you both explore the streets and play with each other at public places using the remote, whoever orgasms first, loses.

22. Sexopoly

Take out the Monopoly board. Play it as normal and buy land and build properties. However, the game involves intense levels of flirting and sexual favours. The rents can be paid by taking off a piece of clothing and properties can be bought using other sexual favours.

23. Sexual Storytelling

In this game with your partner, you both set the timer for 5 or 10 minutes and tell a sexy story based on what comes to your mind. This is a simple game where the hottest story wins. Ultimately, you both are surely in for steamy nighttime.

24. The “Mmmms & Ahhhhs” 

In this sex game, you and your partner take turns to explore each other’s bodies using your hands and lips and sexually touch them at different places. The other partner has to only respond using the sounds of ‘mmmm’ and ‘ahhhh’ to convey how they are feeling.

This will help you both figure out the exact spots your partner likes to be touched.

25. Cake

Use some ingredients of a cake like whipped cream, Nutella, butter, icing, nuts and fruit and spread it on your partner’s body just as you would do the layers of the cake. Cherries and strawberries work particularly well. 

Not only it will be fun to decorate your partner’s body but also to eat off it.

26. Dirty Singing

Sing your partner’s favourite song while keeping their genitals cupped in your palms. The catch is when you forget the lyrics. At this moment you need to start stimulating your partner’s breast or penis and stop it only when you can recall the lyrics and resume singing.

27. Naked Cooking

Naked cooking can be fun where you both spend some time in the kitchen cooking naked. You both can bake a cake or grill some chicken or vegetables.

When you set the timer, the time can be utilized for some steamy and hot sex. 

Follow it by eating naked too!

28. Temperature Play

This is a game of experiments where you both experiment with hot and cold temperatures.

For cold temperature, play with an ice cube between your lips and run it over your partner’s body for stimulation.

For hot temperature play, you can pour a massage oil candle for a stimulating sensation.

29. Red Light, Green Light

During foreplay activities, the red light and green light signals are going to work the best. This can be used to understand what is turning the partner on or giving the maximum pleasure (using the green light) and what is turning your partner off (using the red light).

30. Try a “Yes/No/Maybe” list

Create a list of fetishes and kinks, afger research on Google for example for ideas.

Both of you can take turns to answer either Yes, Maybe, or No, based on your personal choices and preferences while the other person asks the questions. 

This will help gauge and explore your partner’s deepest desires.


These game ideas will surely fire up your sex life and intimacy together. These are freely available and some of the best naughty games for couples that won’t cost you anything but will add a lot of spice to your relationship, knowledge of your own body and that of your partner.